tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2201418220091522177.post876760059051222596..comments2024-03-27T01:24:22.682-06:00Comments on young people in love: on love and myselfYoung People in Lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535887993121597790noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2201418220091522177.post-6918896138834813982010-05-24T06:36:12.103-06:002010-05-24T06:36:12.103-06:00Thanks for sharing this, Sam. Hey, grab your &quo...Thanks for sharing this, Sam. Hey, grab your "Feeling Good" book and check out the list of cognitive distortions on page 32. We all do this stuff.<br /><br />It was so great to hear about your work this weekend. Your are a great lady, headed for great stuff.<br /><br />Hooray for Sam Kelly, my daughter (in-law)!aunt khalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14850656057514978903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2201418220091522177.post-86335817718311877332010-05-21T12:44:08.656-06:002010-05-21T12:44:08.656-06:00amen sam. i have felt that same way so many times....amen sam. i have felt that same way so many times. it takes time, reminding, and effort to develop the ability to take meaningful criticism with heart and courage, and let the negative meaningless stuff just float by. two things to read that have helped me: 1. sermon on the mount (but really, this pretty much helps in ANY context) and a really interesting book i stumbled on in grad school called "Self Theories" by Carol Dweck. she presents two ideas of how we perceive ourselves, it REALLY helped me learn to be more objective and reasonable about how to handle criticism from the outside or myself. Love you!zlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16307158347828561538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2201418220091522177.post-11320725659038646882010-05-21T10:43:58.124-06:002010-05-21T10:43:58.124-06:00You are amazing Sam! I wish I could come sit in a ...You are amazing Sam! I wish I could come sit in a few of your classes. It would be so fun to see you in action.Miriam Luskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11210464691304421205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2201418220091522177.post-67970747282529902752010-05-21T08:34:35.565-06:002010-05-21T08:34:35.565-06:00i can relate to this on every level...as a therapi...i can relate to this on every level...as a therapist, a professor, and a woman. i still remember the eval i got, um i think it was 8 years ago now...it said, "i don't understand how lora can call herself a marriage and family therapist and wear the type of outfits she wears to teach our class. she claims to be a proponent of keeping marriages and families together, but she doesn't really portray that image." was it the stilletos or the fishnets, that was too much?! i never understood.<br /><br />you're in a good process, sam...and coming into your own. feels good, huh?!hi! my name is Lora.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12898248162306113581noreply@blogger.com